Infatuation vs Love!

It is one of the most debated topic among the Lovers of our age that if they are really in love or its only an attraction?

There are theories that if infatuation lasts for more than 3-4 months then Hallelujah you are in Love. But then there are theories supporting Love at First sight!

What to support, what to discard, let this article help you out with the dilemma of your innocent yet subtle heart! 

First Things First!

• Time isn't the perfect parameter to define your feelings for other person. What matters is the attachment and how early you start sharing deep secrets with them.

• I can't say about every relationship but you will definitely fall in love with the person who can give you a secure future and at the same time love you with the same passion as you do!

Now Lets talk about The first issue among the two.

Infatuation.

Go through the points given below to assess if your conditions match with mentioned parameters or not?

1.  After every small fight they recalculate if the relationship is working or not.
2.  Feel insecure about every small issue like when their partner is going out with friends for weekends or their partner is talking to people with opposite gender.
3.  Make fuss about small issues rather than attempting to solve them.
4.  Flip the poles, like sometimes over-shower love and sometimes let it all dry.
5.  Counting how many months they have spent together like people in prison do.
6.  Celebrating every month that goes by as Anniversary.
7.  Remembering the money the other person owes you.
8.  Have to trust them because they say so but not because they earn it.
9.  Just staying with the partner because he/she is hot, sexy or smart but no affection for who he/she really is from heart.
10.  Just staying in relationship because you find your partner alluring and you are all lust over them.
11.  When you don't actually have the feelings for the person but you tag along because they have done too much for you.
12.  When you go on date and always want the other one to pay.
13.  When the things don't go the way they should and you fuck up mood of your partner as-if it was all his/her fault.

If more than 8 parameters match with your conditions than guys/girls you are into infatuation!

More facts about Infatuation.

• In Infatuation, after break up there are chances that you will recover within 2-3 months or if it was a long relationship then it can take up to 5-6 months.
• No matter how deep you thought you were in love but you will move on.

Love

If 7 parameters match with your conditions then you are in LOVE!

1.  Generally don't care how long it has been together, they always try to do special things on non-special days.
2.  Fight,only when they want to improve their partner on something.
3.  Always try to share or pay the bills by themselves.
4.  If the partner even goes blind, feelings for them doesn't shake off.
5. Would always stand by your side even if the world stands against you.
6.  When things don't go the right way, both sit and talk the way out of it.
7.  Whenever they feel, they call and talk and understand if their partner is busy.
8. When situation demands they give up their most valuable thing to get something precious for their partner.
9.  They understand something is wrong before their partner say's anything and try to help them in best manner .
10.  They are never materialistic.

More Facts about Love!

Recovery from love is Almost impossible.

There are chances of any recovery only if someone else comes into your life and exceeds every limit to make you fall in love again.

NOTE: 

Important thing is that Infatuation can turn into Love depending on how you work on your relationship as the time progresses.

Most of the relationships which end only posses Infatuation. Its nothing wrong to be in such relationships, but the real essence of love is felt a lot later in life than we expect.

Just keep your heart open and you will fall in love someday.